Sometimes self doubt can really mess us up.
Doubting your potential.
Thinking you cant hang with people that have MORE than you or have “greater success” stories.

If you ever wanna grow then you HAVE to be okay with being uncomfortable.
You have to be okay being the “different one” out the group.
Not being afraid of asking people “how they made it here”
Not seeing others as COMPETITION but as INSPIRATION
I’ve seen people almost RESENT their “friends” because of their success.

The past couple of years I have been surrounded by some amazing people. People that have been nothing short of a HUGE influence in my life. People that don’t mind answering questions I have. People that SHARE HOW they did it.
I love being in a room full of people with major accomplishments. What’s funny is… there are things in life I’ve viewed as small accomplishments but someone else thinks it’s GREAT!

Also remember a lot of times, it’s WHO you know!

“I stopped feeling as if I didn’t belong anywhere, and realized that I belonged anywhere I WANTED to be”


Rosadela Durruthy
Rosadela Durruthy

Rosadela Durruthy is founder of She's Got Lupus, a lupus awareness blog aimed to improve the lives of those living with chronic illnesses by advocating for mental health, healthy living and raising awareness.

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